A reason why some celebrate Christmas.
Since the Israelites were all descendants of
one man, Jacob, or Israel, they were “brothers,” members of one family. When
they assembled for festivals in Jerusalem, it was “good” and “pleasant.” Like
them, many families today look forward to getting together and enjoying a
“good” and “pleasant” time at Christmas.
Why is it a challenge?
The Encyclopedia of Christmas and New
Year’s Celebrations acknowledges: “Family tensions that simmer below the
surface during the rest of the year very often boil over when the family
gathers together for the holidays.”
What Bible principles can help?
“Keep paying a due compensation to [your] parents and grandparents.” (1 Timothy 5:4)
To the extent possible, arrange regular visits with your family. If your
relatives live far away, you can still communicate often. Why not write a
letter, call them on the telephone, send an e-mail, or chat online? Regular
communication keeps misunderstandings to a minimum.
“You are cramped for
room in your own tender affections. . . . Widen out.” (2 Corinthians 6:12, 13) Relatives seen only once a year can
quickly become strangers—especially for children. Some children feel that they
have little in common with their grandparents or distant relatives. Therefore,
encourage your children to “widen out” in their affections by including elderly
relatives. *
Children who regularly spend time with elderly people tend to develop more
empathy and appreciation for people who are older than they are.
“Saying the right word at the right time is so
pleasing.” (Proverbs 15:23,
New Century Version) How can you prevent misunderstandings or issues
from straining family relationships? One way is to select “the right time” to
discuss legitimate concerns. If your relationship is lubricated by regular
communication, you will find it easier to approach family members privately to
resolve any problems and enjoy “good” and “pleasant” times when you come
together.
For more information please go to www.jw.org
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